Why Parent Skills Matter

There’s nothing more educational than talking with you.

Research has shown that children learn language best in the course of daily activities with interested caregivers. Sounds simple, doesn’t it? It can be, but it takes a lot of attention throughout the day. That’s why we’ll keep giving you suggestions of ways to nurture your child’s language in a variety of daily interactions.

Routines that spark interaction

You can structure your daily routines to elicit responses from your child and in the process, build vocabulary and learn the basic rules of interaction, specifically: Respond when another person initiates Take a turn at the appropriate time Give the other person a chance to take a turn Choose an activity that stays the same from […]

Start a conversation

“You don’t need special toys or activities to encourage your child’s language. You can have conversations at the grocery store about what you need to buy and pick out food together. You can talk about what you see as you go for a walk around the neighbourhood. And bath time is a great time for […]

Use your voice

“And your voice can also help with word meanings – such as making your voice rise upwards as you say the word “up”.” Hanen

Notice non-word talking

Any time an adult responds to a child’s message, either verbally or non-verbally, and the child responds back, an interaction has started. And it’s within these early back-and-forth interactions that the foundation for all of a child’s future conversations is built. From birth, children communicate using sounds, actions, eye gaze, and facial expressions. They don’t […]

Use your face and hands

“Gesturing with your hands and face (such as pointing, shrugging your shoulders, or frowning) helps young children understand the meaning of your words.” Hanen

Use simple, grammatical sentences

“Young children benefit from hearing proper sentences (like “give it to Mommy” or “do you want a cookie?”), as opposed to sentences that have missing words (like “ta ta Mommy” or “baby want cookie?”). The grammar in sentences helps young children figure out what the words mean and how they are used together.” Hanen

Pause and watch for your turn to talk

Pause and wait for your child to send you messages. “When it’s your turn to talk, talk about what interests your child. By following your child’s lead, you let him know that you are interested in what he has to say, which will make him want to have longer conversations with you.” Hanen

Join in and play

Be sure not to change the play. Try to play the way your child enjoys playing. You can join in by: doing what your child is doing – Copy what your child does with his toy. Sarah’s mom noticed that Sarah was hugging her doll, so she did the same thing with her own doll. […]

Follow your child’s lead

After you OWL and your child sends you a message, follow their lead by: Responding immediately! This shows your child that you’ve heard her message and are interested in what she said/communicated. Interpreting Making a fun comment! For example, “We made really sticky playdough!” Joining in and playing! ! Get some playdough for yourself and […]

Get face-to-face

“One of the best ways to let your child know that you want to talk to him is to be face-to-face. This means joining your child at his physical level, whether that’s on the floor together, facing him in his high chair, or sitting together at the table. Make eye contact with your child and […]

OWL – Observe, Wait, Listen

When you Observe, Wait and Listen to your child’s messages, you let her start the interaction and lead it! Children are motivated to interact when you’re talking about their interests and they get to lead the interaction. Observe what your child is interested in – it can be helpful to get face to face with […]

Why Parent Skills Matter

There’s nothing more educational than talking with you. Research has shown that children learn language best in the course of daily activities with interested caregivers. Sounds simple, doesn’t it? It can be, but it takes a lot of attention throughout the day. That’s why we’ll keep giving you suggestions of ways to nurture your child’s language in a […]